Online Single Dating – The Reasons Why It Will Work For You!

With the advent of the internet the possibilities have opened up and it has become easier to meet that special someone.

It is now socially acceptable and with 61% of all American singles at some stage going online to find a date this year alone. It has become more of away of life and with a proven track record with millions of matches each year.

How Online Single Dating can work for you.

1) It’s FREE to join and browse the sites. Want to go further and make a connection you will pay a small fee. But then what would you pay to find that special some one.

2) No need to doll yourself up spend all that dosh dressed to impress. Going out on a Saturday night and being disappointed at what on offer at the night club. No doubt you’ve had a wicked time doing it, it’s just that at so point you want to meet right person.

3) When you sign up to a Dating Site by filling out your profile and sending in your photos. You will then can be approached for a date from someone browsing the site. Or you can select a date yourself by location, gender, ethnicity, religion, language, age or even select a Online Single Dating Site that can do the Matchmaking for you. By filling out a questionnaire they will be able to fix you up by matching your compatibility with someone else. Which means you don’t have to do the work of searching profiles. Sounds to good to be true! plus this works 24/7 so you could be in your pyjamas in bed looking a date.

4) Contact can be made with a prospective date by email, instant messenger, chat rooms and even video cams. Now here is something to explore. A chat room can be varied and diverse it’s your choice of imaginative venue to meet and talk. Try these names out of original chat rooms. The Dungeon, Pool Room, or Sauna Room. They are virtual rooms or spaces to meet making your contact it a bit more exciting to chat.

5) The beauty of the internet is that you meet people well beyond the boundaries of your own world. Making contact with like minded singles world wide or simply just in your street. The selection of options is limitless. After all were do you find love – anywhere!

6) Work out what you want first. If you narrow down what you want to get out of Online Single Dating then it is easier
to write your profile. It could be the following –

* Friendship/Pen-pals

* Romance/ Companionship

* Relationship

* Activity partner in sport or hobby

* Marriage

* Sex

Follow this advice and check out the dating sites before committing yourself to just one site. You will find love but first find out what Online Single Dating can do for you and how it works. All the best.

Would You Have “Virtual” Sex With Someone on Second Life?

Does the idea of having “virtual” sex, online sound appealing to you? The ability to anonymously (for the most part) meet up and share a sexual encounter online, with little or no real life hang-ups, seems to appeal to a great many internet users. This is were virtual worlds, like Second Life a.k.a SL, come in very handy.

There are many ways of communicating online, whether it be through text chat, voice, video or a combination of all three. For the purpose of this article, will, however, be focusing on the avatar based, virtual world known as Second Life. Users can create an account, refine their avatar, and slap on a headset to talk with other “residents”. This social experience naturally leads to many activities you would encounter in real life (RL). Instead of listing all the things one can do in SL, I will again, focus on the sexual aspects… since they are the most intriguing to me. Not because I indulge in such aspects of SL, but because I have been witness to countless relationships around me while using SL. Listening to people stories, and experiences with it.

There is a LOT of “sex” going on in SL. Some of it between people who just want a relationship in one form or another… and some of it is financially driven. I am referring to the oldest profession in the world of course. Prostitution online is a very active trend now a days. Second Life is a perfect breeding ground for this, due to the anonymous nature of a place where you can be, anything you want to be… or anyone, should I say. Don’t like something about yourself? Leave it out of your online persona. Want to see how it feels to be a member of the opposite sex? change it! Are you a little shy in RL, or sexually reserved? well, go online and be a paid voice escort… or cam (video cam) escort, for the exhibitionists among you.

Second Life takes a little getting used to. It is not the most intuitive, or friendly place for the new user. Once you get the hang of it, however, it becomes very easy to see why so many folks are rushing to experience the sexual side of it. for some, SL sex and relationships can become almost addictive in a sense. You can become so used to it that you almost crave it. I know it can be a little off putting to the casual observer, especially for those who came to SL for non sexual based reasons. The thing to remember, is that for a lot of people, SL provides a relatively “safe” way to try things they may not otherwise get to in RL. Have you ever secretly wanted to do something sexual that you just couldn’t do, or get someone else to do in RL? Well odds are that there is a whole community in Sl almost dedicated to that one fantasy you may have. Like minded people, in one place, makes it easier to live out whatever you can think of.

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Digital Infidelity – Find Out How Your Partner Could Be Cheating You Right Under Your Nose

Digital Infidelity has become a growing problem all over the world in the midst of the advancement of technology through the access on the internet. Nowadays, it is easy to hook up and meet other people using the computers, laptops or notebooks.

People interact using the latest gadgets and spend hours chatting and making video calls online. What a convenient way to interact with other people who are thousands of miles away from each other. Just one click of the button and connection to the internet will make things happen for them.

People find the idea exhilarating when they pretend to be other people. Some people find it hard to reveal their true selves so they pretend that they are somebody else. Such activity gives them the adrenaline rush, which they might need to add spice and color in their boring lives.

With almost 90% of the global population addicted to internet these days, everybody opens up himself to the idea of making friends and meeting people for the first time using social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, My Space or Friendster. These networking sites will unlock their doors to several possibilities like sexual infidelity, role-playing games and emotional association. Everyone is a player here. Single people who are in existing relationships and most especially married, people take advantage by pretending they are free to enter new relationships, but in truth, they are not. In effect, the marriage and relationships suffer because the partners engage in forbidden affairs.

What is Cyber Sex?

The internet is an avenue to fulfil the sexual fantasies of thrill seekers. Some people find gratification in hook-ups online. They just use the web cam and they do foreplay while satisfying their sexual urges without doing the actual act.

For them they find satisfaction in living in a make-believe world. This is something new to them and they can engage in multiple partners after ending a conversation with one acquaintance.

This activity greatly affects the married life of couples. The husband or the wife who seeks sexual pleasures from online partners clearly disrupts the married couple’s relationship. The focus of the other partner is divided because his addiction to cyber sex eats up most of his time and attention.

This is a form of cheating because one person who is committed is lying and being dishonest to his partner. Betrayal and distrust can ruin any marriage. It is a sad to believe but this has become a fact.

It has become the cause of divorce and separation of a great number of wedded couples who used-to-be happily married.

Watching Pornography Online

Watching pornography online increases the sexual appetites of partners who are no longer physically attracted to their mates. They enticed by the allure of other individuals who catch their attention by the way they dress, walk and talk or how they carry themselves. Being fascinated to another person draws the other partner to give in to his sexual desires.

By watching pornography online, a person’s libido is increased. A person feels empowered when his sexual drive increases. Married couples experience sexual problems. Sometimes, when a partner is no longer drawn to his mate, he/she does not have the craving to get in bed with him/her.

Or most of the time, sex is no longer present in the relationship because they feel tired due to work or overwhelmed by stress caused by their kids or obligations in the home.

The uninterested partner now wants to pep up to his jaded life or daily routine, so his immediate escape is to watch pornography and readily available online. Sex can be addictive. It sends out pleasurable experiences, momentary bliss and short-lived ecstasy.

Seeking carnal knowledge outside of the home may be gratifying to some men or women. But the effect of this marital infidelity is destructive in a relationship.

The hate and resentment of the partner will have a great impact in the family home. Children will be affected and eventually, the couple resort to end the agony through divorce. The long-term effect of infidelity will divide the family and later destroy the future of their kids.

Swingers

A married person who is tired of his partner will engage in another married person just to have sex and to satisfy his urges and fantasies, which which he cannot get from his partner at home. The same thing goes to the other spouse who seeks sexual gratification from another person.

Both spouses give their consent in exchanging sexual partners in order to zest up their relationship. They find their sex partners on the internet by entering pornographic websites and checking- out who are willing to lie in bed with them, all for the sake of lust and thirst for sex.

This act is morally disturbing because this is not an accepted norm in the human society. This is shocking to the moral senses and can be considered as a barbaric act only practiced by animals for they do not have brains to think and distinguish right from wrong are However, this modern ideology of other married couples is not practiced by majority of human beings.

Many of us still value fidelity and loyalty to only one partner. Sadly, statistics show that infidelity cases have tremendously gone up. In this age and time, the main source of pornography is the internet.

Being faithful is a difficult mission every married couple should take by heart. With the proliferation of pornography online, one cannot close his/her eyes to the evil temptations surrounding our society. We are only humans and sometimes although the mind wills you to be morally upright, the body or the flesh is weak.

To avoid this, we should be able to establish strong ties with our mates in our current relationships and work hard to keep it the passion alive. Some people are lazy to go the extra mile to nurture and save their relationships.

They find the easy way out and pleasure themselves with sinful luxury of watching pornography online and engage in virtual sex play without having actual sex. The end- result is digital infidelity